My death wish

we never know what may happen in life. one day it may seem like life couldnt get any better for you and that you own the world, and then the next day you may accidentally get hit by a bus and then you're done for. i write this blog because if ever the end for me comes sooner then i would have expected i want to make sure that my death wish is carried out as i wish it to be......

my belongings:
- my direct family has priority of choice. my children(if i have any), my husband/fiance, my brother, and my parents.
- any thing that is left over must be donated to the homeless
- i ask that any member of my family that wishes to adopt any of my belongings, may it please be a meaningfull reason and not for greed.

the ceremony:
- i wish everyone TO WEAR WHITE
- i want people to speak the truth of my life: both positive and negative aspects of my life. my hopes and dreams. my success and my mistakes. the things i love and the things i repel. the things which im proud of and the things which i am ashamed of. my deapest wishes and my deepest fears. etc....
- i want people to celebrate the life i have lived instead of crying over my death.
- if father alain ( priest who has babtized me) is still alive, i wish for him to be present.
-i wish for my body to be exposed ( unless it is in a traumatizing conditon)
- i wish for there to be happy music playing, gentle music, romantic music.
- lots of life and colors and love

after the ceremony
- i wish for my exposed body to be cremated in a natural environment;
- i want everyone to witness my cremation
-people may want to write letters of love and hope, may those love letter come with me in the fire. ( my element is fire)

once my body has become ashes:
- i wish for it to be divided in 3( air, water, earth)
- i want to people whom are closest to my heart to take care of this

AIR:
- 1/3 of my ashes are to travel to the very top, to the very peak of a mountain top, where the clouds are now below you.
- once my ashes have reached the very top of the mountain, and all you see are clouds all around you......... let the wind take me away in the presence of the sun.

WATER:
- 1/3 of my ashes are to travel to the orca waters.
- I want my ashes to be scattered in the water, in the presence of at least one ORCA, and if possible @ DAWN
- i would appreciate the presence of a person with ancestral knowledge

EARTH:
- i want a tree to be planted (fruit tree if possible)(MANGO if possible) if not a fruit tree, then a willow tree would be prefered
- i want the tree to either be planted near my family's home or anywhere where the tree can be safe from being cut down.
- i want my ashes to be mixed with the soil which would be used to plant and nurture the new baby tree.
- i want my loved ones, to make necklaces and bracelets with thier hopes and dreams and attach them to my branches.

one life passes, and a new life begins.

This is my death wish :D